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Amy M Coutu
Danielson Connecticut 06239
email
kookiec02@yahoo.com
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date
May 1, 2008
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I have had enough with DCF and thier false allegations.
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Drew
Connecticut
phone
860-770-9491
email
mainecoon04@yahoo.com
website
www.myspace.com/antoine_robert21
date
January 13, 2007
comments
Please have members look at this page.
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Helen DuPerry
178 Burnside Ave
East Hartford Connecticut 06108
phone
860-206-3681
email
hellonwhls99@yahoo.com
date
January 13, 2007
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I could write a book about the things that DCF did to me
and my children and what they are doing to a young
couple that I know. If you have any questions. I am
more than willing to tell you how DCF works and the
wicked things they do to keep your children from you.
My DCF nightmare started back in 1981.
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Josh Smith
Connecticut
email
smeets8@yahoo.com
date
November 16, 2006
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I am going through a battle with DCF. They came into my
home and took my children, and all of their evidence is
based on lies. I have been trying to find an attorney,
but have been unsuccesful. Does anyone know of any good
attorneys for this situation?
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Pearle
Bethel Connecticut 06801
email
Warmfuzsi@aol.com
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September 28, 2006
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My experience with the injustice of Connecticut DCF goes back to
1998. My son was 5 almost 6 in 1998, he is now turning 14
tomorrow. I am so tired, tired of fighting and struggling and
trying to do the right thing. I am numb! In 1998 they took him
from me, cut off all contact....it took over 2 yrs. to get
supervised visits, then it took another year and a half to get 4
hour visits and now .... nothing. Cut off again, no contact.
Every time they change workers, which is like every 6 months, I
am denied contact. My relationship is so severed and I have to
admit, I don't know my son any more. I love him dearly but I
don't know him. I am dead inside. If you want to wound a human
being all you have to do is sever their children from them.
Eventually over the years I have just become numb. Just so
tired of this pain. Eight years is an enternity in a child's
life. When he was stolen he had a big round face and chubby
kissable cheeks and now he is nearly a man. I have to hope that
someday when he is legally allowed to make his own decisions he
will come to me. Perhaps we can have a relationship then. I am
a good person, I don't do drugs, or drink or commit crimes. I
am a mother to another child and she is great. I don't get why
this happened to me other than I was a teen-aged mother when I
had my son. You would think that DCF would want to keep the
family together and help them as a whole if there are struggles,
not rip the child away and have strangers raise him. I may have
been young but I was a very loving nurturing mother. I was just
having financial issues. DCF! Why not help the family as a
whole rather than devastate it? My son was not physically or
emotionally harmed in any way. I miss him! This has devastated
me and I don't think I will ever be okay again. I can't imagine
what my son is feeling — abandoned, unloved and possibly
very very angry.
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anonymous
Ellington Connecticut 06029
email
tricia_albro@comcast.net
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August 28, 2006
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Help???? My parental rights were terminated eight years
ago thanks to the abuse of family members who work for
the state of Connecticut along with at the time having
depression. I have weekend visitation, but I want my
rights back as well as joint coustody. I am a healthy
prductive member of society, with no health or mental
problems, never used drugs or alcohol, just limited
fiancially for legal help!! Please email if you can
help. Thanks
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Eric Belko
50 Seventh St.
Ansonia Connecticut 06401
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July 8, 2006
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On 6/28/06, I received an official
letter from the Chief of Police, Ansonia, Connecticut, on my
complaint, dated 3/28/06, concerning the conduct of Ansonia
Police Officers and Luis Rivas-Vazquez, Connecticut DCF, about
the removal of our two-year-old triplets, and our
eleven-year-old son, by DCF on 3/7/06, 5:30PM.
This investigation determined that Officer's Adam Greco and
Officer David Ireland actions were improper. As a result,
administrative agency action will be taken.
As an additional note, Luis Rivas-Vazquez' supervisor, from
the Hartford DCF Office of Personnel, has been notified of this
investigation, and that Vazquez will be issued an infraction for
two counts of Failure to Secure a Child Under the age of Six in
a Child Seat.
We are, still, not satisfied enough has been done. We feel
someone who is empowered by the State must ensure the safety of
the children of the parents of Connecticut. Mr. Vazquez should
receive a punishment GREATER than a parent making the same
mistake. Mr. Vazquez should be fired from his position from
reckless, intentional neglect and endangerment. Especially,
since Mrs. Belko pleaded with Vazquez to take her own car
seats, and he refused, all in the presence of the Ansonia
Police.
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anonymous
Enfield Connecticut
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June 11, 2006
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My son was forced by coercion by the Connecticut
Department of Children and Families and the Juvenile
Court to terminate his parental rights. My son was
interrogated by the Enfield Police Department without an
attorney present. My son never knew he had the rights
mentioned on this website and I don't want this to
happen to another 20 year old kid.
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Kim
Bristol Connecticut
email
ilovecavies@gmail.com
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date
June 9, 2006
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Trying to form a group in the Bristol area to help
people that are being victimized by DCF. Contact me via
email at the above email address. Include in the
subject line: DCF Victim. That way, I will know it's
not spam.
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Melissa Day
Norwich Connecticut 06360
email
mad52775@adelphia.net
date
June 11, 2006
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I came across this site after receiving a letter from
DCF in Connecticut stating a case had been opened
against me. To summarize my son wrote a poem in school
that was about death principle turned me into DCF for it
and I have now been told I am emotionally neglectful.
If any one can help please let me know.
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anonymous
Bristol Connecticut
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June 2, 2006
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Hi, I have some problems with DCF of Ct. past and
present. Would like to E-mail someone with some
questions and concerns dealing with DCF.
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John Wells
East Hartford, Connecticut
email
jw1069@comcast.net
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CT family being brutalized by DCF
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Steve Genco
Somers, Connecticut 06071
persons
4
email
Stephen-J-Genco@cox.net
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We are grandparents of 4 children and their parents are
Heroin addicts. The parents have been arrested and we
made the mistake of calling DCF. They removed our
grandkids from us at 11:30pm. They are now in a foster
home and now we are being denied visitation and phone
calls.
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Carol Ann Vass
375 Northcolony Rd 1st fl
Wallingford, Connecticut 06492
phone
203-589-2124
email
swtcheyanne01@aol.com
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HELP me with DCF.
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Alita Grieco
37 Dunham Street
Sourhington, Connecticut 06489
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my family
persons
4
email
amgl61699@yahoo.com
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Need advice/help/resources to aid me in my fight to get
my children back from DCF.
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anonymous
Vernon, Connecticut 06066
email
dcharles01@snet.net
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Being harassed by DCF, now for the 3d time, for what I
believe to be nonsense. I have a right to
discipline(spanking not "beating") my child as I believe
is appropriate and not have to worry about the school
and DCF interfering.
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Donald R Patterson
228 Tallwood Drive
Vernon, Connecticut 06066
email
dpatterson.coco@comcast.net
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Nuke DCF
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Lora Ann Varvella
4 Parkway Drive
Stratford, Connecticut 06614
email
LoVarvel25@aol.com
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I am in the process of wrongfully being
accused by Connecticut DCF for being an unfit parent to the
extent of emotional neglect. I need help, as I feel I am being
inadequately represented by my court assigned attorney through
an approved public defense application, and am willing to work
to change DCF omnipotency so that no others may have to endure
such invasive actions. My children (three girls) were forcibly
removed from me by police and DCF for their statement of failure
to comply with orders. I am poor financially, but I believe
that is my only shortcoming. I was ordered forthright to allow
DCF and their services to be implemented in my home and upon me
without any opportunity for challenge or recourse. DCF is wrong
to be as powerful as it is and I have had the misfortune of
being brought to this road in my life of righting a wrong in
such a manner - I will fight for justice for all parents,
children, and families for true justice so that the edict of the
system is no longer considered gospel. Thank God for AFRA so
that there is hope for all.
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Salvatore Privitera
156 Britannia Street
Meriden, Connecticut 06450
phone
203-235-2708
email
sp71257@cox.net
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I feel that I've been victimized by CT DCF simply
because I'm a single father raising my two sons 12 and
13 years of age for the last 5 years. I feel helpless
as far as protecting my boys and myself from an agency
that has no accountability and hides behind immunity to
do what ever they please. Even the governor of
Connecticut has to account for his wrong doings but
apparently DCF is above all that. Thanks for your time
and God Bless the work that you're doing, Salvatore
Privitera.
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Henry W. Colby, Jr.
Freelance Paralegal
email
Henry2232@aol.com
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I would like to join. I'm a Freelance Paralegal and
I've had my voice heard before many government agencies.
I have never backed down from any government agencies
when I know the cause is just & right, I will be
heard... Please accept my membership.
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Nancy White
Oxford, Connecticut
phone
203-881-1134
email
Nwhite538@aol.com
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I have a 16 yr. old son and DCF has been in our lives
since 11/03. Can't take much more and need help. Hope
joining AFRA will help and guide us.
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Susan Tash
Connecticut
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Thomas Dutkiewicz
32 Terryville Avenue, #3
Bristol, Connecticut 06010
group
Connecticut DCF Watch
phone
860-585-1136
email
ctDCFwatch@connecticutdcfwatch.com
website
www.connecticutDCFwatch.com
comments
Check out our web site on the newly released hand book
on parental and children's rights. It cites over 100
cases dealing with unlawful removals and 4th and 14th
Amendment violations. The recent Supreme court decision
on hear-say (6th Amendment) is also there when it comes
to child abuse and domestic violence cases. A manual on
Title IV-E dealing with "reasonable
efforts".
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Morris Carlson Lewis
11A Nutmeg Drive
Meriden, Connecticut 06451-2891
phone
203-630-2939
cell
203-980-3991
email
mclewis@usadatanet.net
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Andrew Fortenberry
27 Desjardins Dr
Uncasville, Connecticut 06382
email
Helmman50@aol.com
comments
link for comments
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Patricia Lockey
Ashford, Connecticut which is in Windham
county noeast corner of the state.
phone
860-487-0332
email
Lpattyanne@aol.com
comments
I am a birth, adopted and foster parent
and I get calls all the time from parents who need help with
DCF. I see lots of injustice because of that agency. I read
the letter from Aimee Dutkiewicz in the Courant and went to my
computer to see if I could locate a site for information and if
I could join. My real concern is children in foster care which
no one can see and no one can question about their welfare,
especially the children placed in orphanages all over the state.
No one can trust DCF reports as to the care of these children.
I know the advocate in the office of the advocate of the child.
I have know Jeanne for years and I trust her but there is so
much for her to do that little people get lost in the cracks. I
have some experience with the legislature and I know some of the
friendly legislators in Hartford. I want to be involved. I
just never saw anything happening when I was involved a few
years back except for the law around the office of the advocate
of the child and have her be accessible to foster and birth and
adoptive parents who get into it with DCF. Is that all the
information you need? Call or write. Thank you for being
there.
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anonymous
Norwalk, Connecticut 06851
persons
2
phone
203-846-8236
email
dparnes@mail.com
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Please put us into contact with other members in CT who
are active in fighting this injustice and also those who
can assist with representation. Clearly, this is not
what the USA is all about by violating the rights of the
innocent and absolving the constitution.
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Monica Messenger
Enfield, Connecticut 06082
email
monicam@cox.net
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Kristin Busby
6 Forbell Drive
Norwalk, Connecticut 06850
phone
203-229-0129
email
KrisBusby@AOL.com
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anonymous
New Milford, Connecticut 06776
email
AliceMMBB@aol.com
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Lori Hopkins
Westomere Terrace
New London, Connecticut 06320
email
media@hopkinsad.com
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Mark A. Turner
PO Box 754
Stonington, Connecticut 06378
phone
860-857-9154
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Edmond Niewinski
Harwinton, Connecticut 06791
email
eniewinski@aol.com
comments
After having the school getting mad at me checking on
what my handicapped daughter was not getting for her
education at school & retaliation on me by telling
DCS on me and trying to get my 2 children taken away so
she wouldn't have to be taught in our school system (by
the way I am 66 years old and lost my wife & the
school said a man shouldn't take care of my daughter (my
wife was slowly dying for the last 7 years. The school
said that KATHY was dirty (I gave both my wife<JOAN
& KATHY baths for the last 3 years (MORE SHOULD BE
SAID BUT I HAVE SAID A SMALL PART OF IT).
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anonymous
Litchfield, Connecticut 06759
email
mymorningsunshine@hotmail.com
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We are 'victims' of false accusations based on our
rights to raise our children in a moral environment.
Our reports came in anonymous (although DCF is suppose
to 'try' to get names). After identifying the accuser
no prosecution occurred which led to near murder of our
children by the accuser. DCF is not for the family.
False and malicious complaints could be stopped.
America is not the land of the free.
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anonymous
Bridgeport, Connecticut 06604
email
ajia760@aol.com
comments
If we have the power to elect government officials and
impeach them as well then how can we not have the right
to stand up for our civil liberties and be heard? We
must unite and stand up for our rights. If we do
nothing then we are nothing. And if we say nothing,
then nothing will be done. We are the land of the free
let's start demanding our constitutional rights!
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Kristen Stafford
601 Hazard ave At 15
Enfield, Connecticut 06082
phone
860-749-1253
email
kristenstafford@webtv.net
comments
I lost three kids to dcf and I am mad. and They took my
children because I have A.D.D. and other reasons.